Notice them.

Smile a lot.

Remember their birthday.

Ask them about themselves.

Look in their eyes when you talk to them.

Play with them.

Read aloud together.

Tell them their feelings are okay.

Set boundaries that keep them safe.

Be honest.

Be yourself.

Listen to their stories

Hug them.

Forget your worries sometimes and concentrate only on them.

Notice when they're acting differently.

Present options when they seek your counsel.

Surprise them.

Stay with them when they're afraid.

Suggest better behaviors when they act out.

Feed them when they're hungry.

Delight in their discoveries.

Share their excitement.

Send them a letter or postcard.

Follow them when they lead.

Call them to say hello.

Hide surprises for them to find.

Give them space when they need it.

Contribute to their collections.

Discuss their dreams and nightmares.

Laugh at their jokes.

Be relaxed.

Kneel, squat, or sit so you're at their eye level.

Answer their questions.

Tell them how terrific they are.

Create a tradition with them and keep it.

Use your ears more than your mouth.

Make yourself available.

Show up at their concerts, games, and events.

Find a common interest.

Apologize when you've done something wrong.

Listen to their favorite music with them.

Keep the promises you make.

Wave and smile when you part.

Display their artwork in your home.

Thank them.

Point out what you like about them.

Clip magazine pictures or articles that interest them.

Catch them doing something right.

Ask for their opinion.